Saturday, May 23, 2026

Diversity Is Beautiful; Relationships Are Difficult; Philippians 4:4-7

 

Rev. George Miller

May 24, 2026

Philippians 4:4-7

 

Diversity is beautiful.

     Relationships are difficult.

 

Saying everyone is welcome is one thing.

 

Creating a system of safe spaces and boundaries for that inclusion is nuanced and complicated.

 

Tribalism is a one way to ensure certain death.

 

Widely opening the doors means being rightfully aware of who comes in.

 

Keeping a closed table means the meals may eventually become bland and flavorless.

 

Inviting everyone to the table means  you better be prepared for different ingredients, spices, concepts of time and family.

 

Diversity is beautiful.

     Relationships are difficult.

 

Today we celebrate Pentecost.  We wear our Red and recall the day when people from all over were gathered in the Holy City and the Spirit fell upon them.

 

Like tongues of fire, the Holy Spirit danced among all those present, giving them the ability to hear and understand one another’s mother language. 

 

Parthians could understand the Medes.  The Elamites could understand the Asians.  The Egyptians could hear the Arabs.

 

It was a groundbreaking moment.  God did something so new, so invigorating that it gave birth to the church, allowing the Good News of Christ to cross continents, time zones, and cultures.

 

But of course, this would mean something else- the faith of Sarah and Abraham, the stories of Miriam and Moses were now open to and available to people who previously had no faith at all, or worshipped snakes or thought Ceaser was God on high.

 

The inbreaking of the Holy Spirit in which people could be heard and share the Good News would mean that there was now adjustments to be made, new boundaries to discover, and different traditions to become aware of.

 

Pentecost is a day when God poured out God’s spirit upon all flesh, so heirs could prophecy, young can have visions, elders can dream, and all who call upon the Lord will experience a strong foundation.

 

But did you ever wonder what that actually meant, and what it would look like for the early churches when Jew and Gentile, Arab and Asian, all came together to sit at table, tell stories, sing songs, testify about Jesus and then break bread and drink wine?

 

It is not such an easy thing to do in an inclusive, wordly setting because everyone has their own culture, context, and expectations.

 

For example time.  Time as a concept fascinates me.

 

In New York, distance is measured by time.  The mall is 30 minutes away; the church is 45. 

 

But in Minnesota, distance is measured by miles.  The mall is 5 miles away.

 

Time really becomes tricky when it comes to a gathering.

 

Tell someone on Long Island that the party begins at 7 pm- that means “don’t show up until 7:15” because the host is counting on that extra 15 minutes. 

 

BUT in Grand Rapids, Michigan (which is very Dutch), the host better be ready by 6:39 because their first guest will be there at 6:40 with a casserole.

 

Now, if you are invited by a Jamaican to a 7 pm party, what that means is at 7 pm start thinking about getting ready, by 7:45 get in the shower, and by 8:30 the grill will be fired up.

 

BUT, if a Colombian family invites you, be prepared to show up around 9:30 pm, dressed in a well put-together outfit.  Know that you will see many kids (who will eventually fall asleep on chairs), your ears will hear much chisme, your belly will be full of rice and coffee.  You won’t get home until after 2, and it will take an hour to say goodbye.

 

All of this is wonderful and comforting if that’s what you’re used to and the culture you exist.

 

But what if you are one of those very 1st  churches meeting in the home of Miss Louanna and people are showing up 20 minutes early or three hours late?  What if some brought casseroles with ingredients you don’t eat or a group of kids who will run around for hours?

 

It can be pure chaos, requiring patience, give and take, creating new customs and redrawing agreeable boundaries.

 

All these things that took place in the mother churches that laid the way for us, and all the delightful dilemmas that Pentecost brought when the Holy Spirit barged in and gave us the rhythm to dance and worship and praise the Lord.

 

Paul dealt with these realities all the time.  Paul had to do this as the first one with no dance instructor or Rosetta Stone.

 

As we read Paul’s 7 authentic letters, we’re invited to always keep in mind that Paul is constantly finding a way to welcome diversity while also finding ways to keep relationships healthy.

 

Sometimes Paul seems to succeed, sometimes he fails greatly.  But decade after decade, island after island, house church after house church, Paul keeps keeping on.

 

So in chapter 4, Paul writes to a congregation caught up in turmoil, he finds a way to create that welcome and sense of safe space.

 

He focuses them on celebration.  “Rejoice,” he writes.  “Rejoice in the Lord.” 

 

He encourages them to be gentle; to let that be known as one of their trademarks.-

 

“Hey, do you know those folk in Philippi?”

“Yes, they are so kind and sweet with one another.”

 

Paul reminds them to be in dialogue with God; to pray; to be thankful; to be humble. 

 

Paul encourages them to be aware of what they seek and ask for; to turn to the Lord with words that reflect vulnerability and petition.

 

As if giving a recipe of faith, Paul states that when the Philippians do this, they will experience a sense of peace that is more than calm waters or clear weather,

 

but a spiritual sense of presence, wholeness, assurance…breathe.

 

Paul is not writing these words from a place of innocence or misunderstanding. 

 

He has been there, done that, and he understands that a church created by Pentecost is also a church that will have complexity and diversity while finding their identity and new path of direction.

 

Paul is not afraid for them; Paul is certain that they will be fine, and he wants them to know it.

 

So in verses 8-9, he writes “Finally, sisters and brothers, primas and primos, opas and omas,

 

whatever is true and truly felt, whatever is pure and well intentioned, whatever is the best that you can bring, think about these things.

 

If you do them, embody them.  Give them hands and feet.  Then the peace of God will be with you and you and you.”

 

Today we celebrate the inbreaking of the Holy Spirit, not just then, but every time we gather, every time we welcome someone new,

 

every time we try something else, every time we choose peace over paralysis,

 

every time we are able to hear what another is saying.

 

So today let us rejoice; let us seek what is pleasing; let us move in a way that others can say-

 

“Look at how the God of peace is with them; St. Lucas UCC.”

 

Amen and amen.

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